Talking to Your Child About Central Precocious Puberty: A Helpful Guide
Going through puberty too early can be a confusing and unsettling time for a child and his or her family. There are changes taking place in your child’s body that he or she may not fully understand.
As a parent or caregiver, you play a key role in helping your child understand and cope with central precocious puberty (CPP). This guide includes some helpful tips to keep in mind as you discuss CPP with your child.

Stay positive.
Reinforce that your child is going through a natural process that usually happens at a later age.
Right now, your child might not understand the changes happening in his or her body or they may have negative feelings about developing early. How you talk about CPP can go a long way toward shaping your child’s understanding of it. When discussing CPP, being honest and open about the changes happening to their bodies can be helpful. You can start out by saying something like: “Everybody goes through puberty. You just started a little early.”

Prepare your child for what to expect.
Being diagnosed with CPP can raise a lot of questions, such as: What’s happening to my body? Why am I so moody? Why don’t I look like my friends? By talking to your child about what CPP is and what to expect from it, you can help ease his or her fears and anxieties. Enlist the help of your child’s healthcare provider to explain what is happening. Be sure to stay involved.


Be there.
Although your child’s body is developing early, he or she is still a child and they need your support and guidance. Reassure your child that you’re there when he or she has questions, concerns, or just wants to talk. It may be helpful to tell your child: “I’m here to help you” or “You can ask me anything.”

Help your child feel comfortable responding to questions.
Because it’s natural for other people—especially kids—to be curious, it helps to arm your child with some simple responses to questions he or she might get from other kids. A confident, straightforward response to other people’s curiosity can help.
Children look for guidance on how to think about and respond to CPP. Your love and support means everything and can go a long way to boosting your child’s self-acceptance.